Well apparently the problem with my husband was a case of whats good for the goose is good for the gander....Only problem is the gander read the wrong gooses blog!
My husband admits he went to the chat rooms. Not to hook up with any one just to see what they are like and whats out there. He thought I had found some one else and might be leaving him.
Why would he think that?
Because there is another "Little Miss Confused" on blogger. Her blog tells about her heart breaking and talks about having to IM her love and sneak behind some ones back. If he would have actually taken the time to look at what he was reading he would have also noticed the blog was written in 2005. I didn't take on the persona of Little Miss Confused until I started my blog at EFX sometime last fall. Also if he actually listened when I talk about my blog he would have known there is another one out there because I complained and whined when I found out my "name" was taken. It took us a few hours to come up with a new one for this blog.
The other problem comes from us both being computer idiots. He is much like a first grader when it comes to computers...no wait...they might know a little more.
He had no idea what to do when unwanted sites 'pop' up. When I went to the dating site he was trying to get into, several other sites popped up as well. instead of just closing them out, he opened them. So they where there in the history as if he went to them. Now that little problem wouldn't have happened if I had turned on the pop up blocker on this computer.
His explanation of how he even ended up on a dating site made sense too. he knows enough to go to Google and type in what he is looking for. He just wanted a chat room but he didn't want to get stuck talking about school and dating and all that giggly stuff kids talk about so he typed in "adult chat room" Thinking he would then get a room that wasn't full of teeny boppers.
At first I was a little miffed that he would "spy" on my blog. Then I realized that is silly because I have always shared my blog with him. In fact I have tried to get him to start one. He laughed at that because it would take him an eternity to type one up. He still uses the 2 finger hunt and peck system to type.
He did clean the house and cook me supper, not because he was guilty. He said he did it because when he thought I was going to leave him he realized how much he takes me for granted. He felt bad that even after I read all the comments people left regarding me thinking he was cheating, I still baked him chocolate chip cookies and still got up every morning to make his lunch he brings to work.
Oh by the way Cam....good thing your blog says you live in Zimbabwe. For some reason he took the most offense to your comment. I think because it made sense. He was always quick to tell me that the guys I meet thru blogging are only after one thing...sex. The more of our blogs he reads, the more I think he knows that not to be true.
In a weird way it made me feel good to know he was a little jealous. I think that was the one thing that always bothered me when we would talk about threesomes. I always said I didn't know if I could handle seeing another person touch him and make him feel good...I was afraid I would turn into mean Ma Ma bear and rip the other person to shreds. He always said it wouldn't make any difference to him. I guess I felt that he didn't love me enough to want me for himself. I was wrong. He said he thought since i was so wild in my youth, he didn't think HE was enough for me. He thought I might need more. (good golly..any MORE and I would never leave the bedroom!)
So after a few tears and laughs we talked it out. Things are good in my life again.........
Now if I could only figure out what happened to all the blogs!
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
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5 comments:
I'm happy to hear that it all worked out like it did, Lisa !
I meant no ill will toward your hubby, I was simply stating a general usuality...
You can let him know that I'm not an asshole, and that...uh... I really DO live in Zimbabwe ?
hahaha...
;-)
I think he picked yours out because of the cat! He kept asking "what's with the machine gun toting pussy? That's a little disturbing" Ha! Ha!
I also think it was because it did speak what it looked like. It's funny...he was basing his jealousy on some story he read a while ago about the statistics of married people cheating on each other with people they met on line thru chat rooms and blogs.
I have to teach that man what to read and what not to read!
I'm surprised he didn't home in on me.
How much do plane tickets to Zimbabwe cost? Hehe
That's so funny Lisa, when I was first looking for you, I came across her blog and was confused when I first started reading it until I realized it wasn't you. lol
Will: I was surprised too. I think he knows better then to say anything bad about you. He knows I value the friendship we have had over the past three years. I also think he knows that after all this time you really do live to far away for there to be any threat to him. He also hears me talk about things on your blog a lot. Cam was a new name he had not heard me talk about.
Laurie: I thought it was odd when I wanted to sign up for a new blog and the "little miss confused" was already taken. After I read hers I wondered what people would think if they got to that one instead of mine. Here all this time I thought I was unique!
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